Like im not knocking people for wanting kids.. And i get struggling... But when you have more then one child under the age of 8 and your struggling and need help.. Maybe stop having so many kids until you get your life together???? Like yes you are in love child birth is beautiful etc... But if you can barley afford food how will bringing in another life help... That man isnt gonna take care of all those babys... You cant be mad at anyone but yourself...